Being a family caregiver will have a significant impact on your life. You will probably never view the world exactly the same way again. While caring for your loved one, you may ponder what the future holds for you near the end of your life. It is almost impossible not to think about your own mortality as you watch someone grow old and die.
For some caregivers this is a wake-up call to lead a more healthy life and purposeful life. These caregivers understand the importance of having a plan for aging and retirement.
Other caregivers are overcome with hidden emotions such as guilt, resentment, anger, fear, grief, and sadness. They become paralyzed and dread getting older.
While being a caregiver it is essential that you take the necessary steps to avoid increased stress and burnout. Acknowledge your emotions and discuss your feelings with a friend or family member. Caregivers need emotional support, information, and resources/services. Learn how to focus on the joys and not the challenges. It is never too late to start planning for the rest of your life.
Today's quote:
"So let us seek the True, in everything, in everybody, in every circumstance, with patience, with humility, with love." — Clara Codd
This article was written by Rebecca Sharp Colmer, a Certified Senior Advisor and the creator of MeAndMyCaregivers, a company who offers management and peace of mind over your loved one’s medical, financial and social well being.
Monday, August 17, 2009
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